tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post4105196670223780579..comments2023-10-29T00:26:23.072-07:00Comments on BABY DUMPING: Mayat bayi ditemui dalam komuterBABY DUMPINGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-21145313806954931752011-03-21T10:44:38.642-07:002011-03-21T10:44:38.642-07:00NURUL AYUNI : yes syahmi, i agree with you too..an...NURUL AYUNI : yes syahmi, i agree with you too..and i want to add some information and statement from Dr Boulton. Dr. Boulton said that mothers who throw their babies normally do so under desperate circumstances. “Having one’s first child is the most stressful experience someone can go through. Young mothers can be vulnerable, especially if they are alone and do not have the experience or social support to cope.” Refer to this article so we know when they are under desperate they might do unnormal thing.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-15546817854640970622011-03-21T10:42:04.471-07:002011-03-21T10:42:04.471-07:00SYAHMI : I never think about this causes before. H...SYAHMI : I never think about this causes before. Hopefully, group Malay aware on this matter and take care of behaviour so that religion only that looked down at Islamic religion.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-64557960086468903182011-03-21T10:16:18.521-07:002011-03-21T10:16:18.521-07:00FATMALAILI : but,we must look at the other perspec...FATMALAILI : but,we must look at the other perspective such as their tradition allowed to married after pregnant and pregnant without married is not "taboo" in their society. so if they pregnant without married it's not a big problem and can gave birth their baby without feel guilty. That's different in malay traditions and Islam religion not allowed pregnant without married. maybe that's perspective causes they to dumped their babies. But that's not mean they must solve this problem by throw their babies.sorry if other religion also not allowed to pregnant without married, because i just look in Islam and malay perspective.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-64454330647546917082011-03-21T10:01:11.505-07:002011-03-21T10:01:11.505-07:00SYAHMI : As amaliza said before poverty also anoth...SYAHMI : As amaliza said before poverty also another factor that causes baby dumping but i want to talk in detail about that.Persons in cultures with poor social welfare systems who are not financially capable of taking care of a child are more likely to throw their babies. Political conditions, such as can the lack of institutions, such as orphanages, to take in children whom their parents cannot support may also contribute to child abandonment. Societies with strong social structures and liberal adoption laws tend to have lower rates of baby dumping.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-15865092322389129842011-03-20T21:51:22.900-07:002011-03-20T21:51:22.900-07:00NOR AMALIZA : You're right ayuni. Another fact...NOR AMALIZA : You're right ayuni. Another factor that cause of baby dumping is family break-up. Family break-ups happen after a long period of misunderstandings, fighting and unhappiness. Sometimes they happen suddenly and it is hard to understand why there needs to be change at all. Children are mostly affected by this kind of situation. If both their mother and father decided to a divorce and one cannot raise their child alone, tendency is that they will abandon their child. This child will become homeless and found himself alone and interrupt with social problem such as sex without married. Lastly when they’re pregnant and born they choose to dump their babies without feel guilty because maybe they don’t understand the importance of a child in a family.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-54175799037374637492011-03-20T21:41:42.442-07:002011-03-20T21:41:42.442-07:00NURUL AYUNI : Beside that,I also take statement fr...NURUL AYUNI : Beside that,I also take statement from Universiti Malaya Senior Research Fellow Datuk Dr Abdul Monir Yaacob. From the statement, he said declining value of the family institution led to babies being dumped. So, from that statment,we know that family institution is one's causes of baby dumping.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-71216721239008295802011-03-20T21:32:56.589-07:002011-03-20T21:32:56.589-07:00NURUL AYUNI : ooo,that a good idea. I feel maybe t...NURUL AYUNI : ooo,that a good idea. I feel maybe they think that best solution to their problem. Beside that, I want give opinion. Refer to news, Datuk Hassan Ahmad said who dump and kill their babies because they failed to control their emotions dan this contributes to their past sin of committing adultery.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-5460834831653889502011-03-20T21:29:22.000-07:002011-03-20T21:29:22.000-07:00SYAHMI : But it’s dependts to the situation,and so...SYAHMI : But it’s dependts to the situation,and some of the other factors is their mother's leading to the children abandonment included early pregnancies, rejection by male partners claimed to have fathered the children, scolding by parents, poverty, and broken marriages. Besides that, unwanted pregnancies also has been one of the major causes of baby dumping, this is because most of these young ladies are not prepared to take care of the children.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-85827907958537640262011-03-20T21:04:40.173-07:002011-03-20T21:04:40.173-07:00FATMALAILI : In the article i just read about &quo...FATMALAILI : In the article i just read about "Baby-dumping and Infanticide" say, that’s issues (dumped their baby) happen because new mothers, especially young mothers under age may feel overwhelmed by the idea of parenthood. They may have difficulty coping with the drastic physical and emotional changes they are experiencing. They may be suffering from the<br />depression sometimes brought on by the hormonal changes associated with giving birth. They may be convinced that they will be unable to provide for the child, and they may feel that there is no one they can turn to for help. They also may fear the shame of having given birth outside of marriage, or they may fear that they will be unable to continue their studies if anyone knows about that. So none of these feelings can excuse they from throw their baby.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-58146511158056820922011-03-20T21:00:39.463-07:002011-03-20T21:00:39.463-07:00NURUL AYUNI : For your information, this case real...NURUL AYUNI : For your information, this case really happened at Kedah in Mac 2009, which that students involved alleged be rape victims in capital when go back for a holiday but she don’t report that incident to her families and police. The student secret giving birth to child out of wedlock uncovered when she complained have stomach ache before their teacher bring her to the hospital. However doctor said, actually she don’t have stomach ache but new give birth and after being persuaded of her teacher and doctor, she's finally admitted childbirth and throw her baby behind school. So from that case we know, baby dumping not only happened and doing by who involved in social phenomenon but from the rape victim.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-91145860539064616072011-03-20T20:43:58.956-07:002011-03-20T20:43:58.956-07:00SYAHMI : Yes,you're right amaliza.But,if they ...SYAHMI : Yes,you're right amaliza.But,if they keep this rape tragedy as a secret, and they must find way to solve this problem without everybody knows. So they make decision to throw out their babies.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-8541645668819445272011-03-20T20:40:23.016-07:002011-03-20T20:40:23.016-07:00NOR AMALIZA : If we see perspective as rape, i thi...NOR AMALIZA : If we see perspective as rape, i think that teenagers can give baby to others to take care of him or pass to social welfare house. Even, i think have no cause to remove baby. Maybe, could care for baby with parents support. Besided that, teenagers no need shyness because all which happen this sure be his wisdom.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-17322488586854239912011-03-20T12:36:17.116-07:002011-03-20T12:36:17.116-07:00FATMALAILI : yes, i agree with you amaliza. But fo...FATMALAILI : yes, i agree with you amaliza. But for your information not only prostitute throw out their babies because its involved who have standard profesion and as ayuni said, we must look it at the other perspective such as rape, because it's is not their false and make sex without their permission.so when they pregnant, they choose to throw out their babies because when look at baby, make their trauma.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-66755118355509302052011-03-20T12:28:51.469-07:002011-03-20T12:28:51.469-07:00NURUL AYUNI : And than about amaliza opinion, I ha...NURUL AYUNI : And than about amaliza opinion, I have one question with your ideas. How on the other case such as rape case? I feel baby dumping doesn't involving prostitution only but the baby dumping also involves another case. Fatmalaili, what do you think?BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-9502556798383762912011-03-20T12:26:22.485-07:002011-03-20T12:26:22.485-07:00SYAHMI : I agree with amaliza but I want to share ...SYAHMI : I agree with amaliza but I want to share about my opinion. I think, the causes of baby dumping is a they afraid for face to face with society. May be, they will be humiliated by the community. So, they feel for doing baby dumping. The purpose is wanted to throw away the ashamed. Are you agree with my opinion?BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-44450391941826561192011-03-20T12:09:28.743-07:002011-03-20T12:09:28.743-07:00NOR AMALIZA : Syahmi, ayuni and fatmalaili,
I thin...NOR AMALIZA : Syahmi, ayuni and fatmalaili,<br />I think low living standard cause that teenagers take road cut to get money by working as prostitute. Due to that job, that possibility of teenagers will be pregnant and remove that baby without guilt.<br />what do you think syahmi, ayuni and fatmalaili??<br />I want all of you give respon my comment..BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-35278108399303982011-03-20T11:51:20.173-07:002011-03-20T11:51:20.173-07:00FATMALAILI : Besides that, baby dumping phenomenon...FATMALAILI : Besides that, baby dumping phenomenon also happen when unwed girls find themselves pregnant,afraid to tell their parents about unwanted pregnant and their don’t know what to do, so the best thing in their mind is throw out their baby’s without feel guilty because its only the way to solve their problem.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-84462290398530369402011-03-20T11:47:59.633-07:002011-03-20T11:47:59.633-07:00NURUL AYUNI : syahmi, I agree with your opinion th...NURUL AYUNI : syahmi, I agree with your opinion that parents must pay a lot attention to their son’s, especially about moral education. But in my opinion not only moral education is the main role that causes baby dumping phenomenon because the other role such as internet, television also one of the cause behind baby dumping. There are still some of us who do not understand the real meaning of sex. Consequently, certain abuses take place. In the web for example, we have the cyber sex which is getting a lot of attention especially from the teenagers. We cannot of course prevent them from chatting in the web or engaging into cyber dates since the internet has proven its worth in terms of socialization and communication. That’s easy to interupe teenage to the sex without marriage. Then, when they make sex and pregnant without married, the problems that could make one get confused and decide to do things that cannot be done by a normal human being,so that’s why some women decide to dump their children.BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6418512022119195151.post-64381495193276585222011-03-20T11:42:27.051-07:002011-03-20T11:42:27.051-07:00SYAHMI : what a cruel person..I want discuss about...SYAHMI : what a cruel person..I want discuss about the causes of baby dumping.In my opinion the main causes of baby dumping is parents role. I think nearest person with teenagers is parents, so only parents can curve their son's behavior. If their parents can't give good education to their son's, is not impossible their son's can't compare between true all false. So that's not impossible teenagers can interupt to the phenomenon baby dumping. what all of you think?BABY DUMPINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851089938664455128noreply@blogger.com